The Sounds of Sex and Seduction
by Tatu
The sounds of sex and seduction are very interesting. Some people scream or moan during sex and others raised in the older generations have been conditioned to never make a peep. Sounds however can have a profound affect upon the sex and seduction experience. I once attended a course on Aural Seduction. By using the voice in a lower and breathier fashion, along with some rhythmic inflection, can have a very seductive quality. Whispering in that lower voice can be quiet intoxicating and arousing. Others like to say or hear certain "four letter dirty words", as it conjures up deep emotions from some life experience. By allowing ourselves to verbalize sound either words or primal noises, one can find a great release or even cathartic. Being free to express oneself during sex can be very seductive. "My love, I am intoxicated by your beauty, now I'm going to fuck you brains out you slut". Words can jolt one into a very steamy encounter. During actual intercourse, allowing one to simply make the sounds, those deep primal guttural sounds with the rhythm of the bodies clashing together. One of the drawbacks of making a lot of noise during sex is having the children in the next room or having the neighbors in the next apartment. One good way to handle that is music. Use music to muffle the sounds. Those in the alternative lifestyles have other sounds in bed a well; spanks on the arse, struggle in ropes, gags, etc... Gags are a wonderful way to muffle those struggling sounds. Mmmmph! Primal Sounds All creatures make sounds, only humans try to not make sounds, again cultural conditioning. To open this door, would suggest just sitting naked face to face with your partner, gazing into each others eyes and doing some deep breathing. As you push the air out do it while allowing the air to vibrate the vocal cord in the deep rear tones. Both partners do this and you will soon be going crazy in the bed. Men are used to using lower tones, women however are not. They tend to use the higher pitches and do not explore the lower pitches. Practice it in this breathing exercise. Japanese women especially speak in almost a monotone high pitch. This comes out during sex as well. If you have ever watched any Japanese porn, the female will almost whine and coo in a high pitch as if she were in little girl space and something dirty is being done to her. Some will scream. Others will cry and release a beautiful catharsis. Some will start by using simple word or sounds.. like uh uh uh; or more more more; or yes yes yes; fuck me, fuck me, fuck me. But also try allowing yourself to use deep guttural tones from the belly, allowing the energies to explode out of your mouth.
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